You can stop a user from trying to use you and you can stop an abuser from trying to abuse you if you shun them before they can get near you -
![The Nice Girl Syndrome: Stop Being Manipulated and Abused - and Start Standing Up for Yourself : Engel, Beverly: Amazon.de: Bücher The Nice Girl Syndrome: Stop Being Manipulated and Abused - and Start Standing Up for Yourself : Engel, Beverly: Amazon.de: Bücher](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/71CJNhY0vkL._AC_UF894,1000_QL80_.jpg)
The Nice Girl Syndrome: Stop Being Manipulated and Abused - and Start Standing Up for Yourself : Engel, Beverly: Amazon.de: Bücher
![When I said she's just being nice he said that vine sauce vinny is a sexual abuser lmao : r/niceguys When I said she's just being nice he said that vine sauce vinny is a sexual abuser lmao : r/niceguys](https://preview.redd.it/4sey9ldy4pj71.jpg?width=640&crop=smart&auto=webp&s=e2efc141078581c649c303fdd91b0bf77d34a4ff)
When I said she's just being nice he said that vine sauce vinny is a sexual abuser lmao : r/niceguys
![NNECA - National Network to End Child Abuse on X: "MYTH – PARENTS SHOULD HAVE KNOWN THEIR CHILDREN WERE BEING ABUSED. TRUTH – ABUSERS HAVE HAD A LOT OF PRACTICE AT DECEIVING NNECA - National Network to End Child Abuse on X: "MYTH – PARENTS SHOULD HAVE KNOWN THEIR CHILDREN WERE BEING ABUSED. TRUTH – ABUSERS HAVE HAD A LOT OF PRACTICE AT DECEIVING](https://pbs.twimg.com/media/FULYjhIWYAQcrd6.jpg:large)
NNECA - National Network to End Child Abuse on X: "MYTH – PARENTS SHOULD HAVE KNOWN THEIR CHILDREN WERE BEING ABUSED. TRUTH – ABUSERS HAVE HAD A LOT OF PRACTICE AT DECEIVING
Couragefindher on Instagram: "Trauma Bond Victims often feel like they are addicted to their abusers. When a person goes back and forth between being nice and then being abusive and rejecting, it
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The Nice Girl Syndrome: Stop Being Manipulated and Abused - and Start Standing Up for Yourself : Engel, Beverly: Amazon.de: Bücher
![The Nice Girl Syndrome: Stop Being Manipulated and Abused - and Start Standing Up for Yourself : Engel, Beverly: Amazon.de: Bücher The Nice Girl Syndrome: Stop Being Manipulated and Abused - and Start Standing Up for Yourself : Engel, Beverly: Amazon.de: Bücher](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/71Ed7hwa1UL._AC_UF894,1000_QL80_.jpg)
The Nice Girl Syndrome: Stop Being Manipulated and Abused - and Start Standing Up for Yourself : Engel, Beverly: Amazon.de: Bücher
![When people hurl abuse at me after games, I love being aggressively nice and asking for advice on how to get better. Makes me feel a lot better and reminds me not When people hurl abuse at me after games, I love being aggressively nice and asking for advice on how to get better. Makes me feel a lot better and reminds me not](https://preview.redd.it/when-people-hurl-abuse-at-me-after-games-i-love-being-v0-50zc0hx9dndb1.png?width=640&crop=smart&auto=webp&s=6a7685ba40e69dec0ad5942bf0a7ff08fa6e31e2)